Had to back this out cause bruhhh #HarlemClover #bringiton #nycsnow Northeast y’all okay? | Kasha Vannessa Johnson
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Had to back this out cause bruhhh #HarlemClover #bringiton #nycsnow Northeast y’all okay? | Kasha Vannessa Johnson
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I heard they was eating cats so you know I’m giving BIG CYAT ENERGY 🐆 | Kasha Vannessa Johnson
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I heard they was eating cats so you know I’m giving BIG CYAT ENERGY 🐆 | Kasha Vannessa Johnson
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No heavy caption I said all that is needed for now! Happy Holidays 🎄❤️🫶🏽🎁 | Kasha Vannessa Johnson
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No heavy caption I said all that is needed for now! Happy Holidays 🎄❤️🫶🏽🎁 | Kasha Vannessa Johnson
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Nothing to see here @mrcommodore… Just making sure my knees still work 😂😂😂 But if you stayed and watched……There’s a misconception that if you’re a little fuller, a little juicier, that you’re automatically out of shape or lacking agility. Truth is, being in tune with my body… embracing flexibility, strength, and sensuality… has been a core part of my journey. I’m always growing and working on my health, yes, but don’t ever get it twisted: Maintaining that softness and strength at the same tim
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Nothing to see here @mrcommodore… Just making sure my knees still work 😂😂😂 But if you stayed and watched……There’s a misconception that if you’re a little fuller, a little juicier, that you’re automatically out of shape or lacking agility. Truth is, being in tune with my body… embracing flexibility, strength, and sensuality… has been a core part of my journey. I’m always growing and working on my health, yes, but don’t ever get it twisted: Maintaining that softness and strength at the same tim
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We know, we know… “Is this all they talk about?” NO Or the classic, “All that and he’ll still cheat.’” Let’s clear something up real quick. What you’re hearing isn’t obsession. There’s a very specific energy that shows up when two grown people come together with one shared goal: to please each other fully. Not just the obvious places. Not just the easy wins. But the whole body. The whole experience. The whole person. I get that feeling Tahoe was talking about. That focus. That hunger to know you
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We know, we know… “Is this all they talk about?” NO Or the classic, “All that and he’ll still cheat.’” Let’s clear something up real quick. What you’re hearing isn’t obsession. There’s a very specific energy that shows up when two grown people come together with one shared goal: to please each other fully. Not just the obvious places. Not just the easy wins. But the whole body. The whole experience. The whole person. I get that feeling Tahoe was talking about. That focus. That hunger to know you
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It’s that time of year and every time Thanksgiving comes around, I feel it deep in my Harlem roots. I came from struggle, but I never starved, and my Turkey Day is heavily shaped by the man who made sure of that. My granddad came up from Durham NC after the Marines and brought all that southern soul straight into our NYC home. I grew up watching him wake up early, turn on Jazz 88 FM, and cook the whole Thanksgiving meal by himself. No shortcuts, no stress, only love. He moved with a calm that ma
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It’s that time of year and every time Thanksgiving comes around, I feel it deep in my Harlem roots. I came from struggle, but I never starved, and my Turkey Day is heavily shaped by the man who made sure of that. My granddad came up from Durham NC after the Marines and brought all that southern soul straight into our NYC home. I grew up watching him wake up early, turn on Jazz 88 FM, and cook the whole Thanksgiving meal by himself. No shortcuts, no stress, only love. He moved with a calm that ma
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Thanksgiving was so full of joy and family… although my feet hurt!… Every year I honor my grandfather bringing together the family as he always did. This year was also dedicated to my niece who called me in July saying how much she couldn’t wait to come to Aunty’s house and eat all that food 😂 she was on thanksgiving in the summer time lol. The family is bigger (there was a good 35 over yesterday) and we were so busy enjoying times that barely anyone took pictures or made many videos. I was als
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Thanksgiving was so full of joy and family… although my feet hurt!… Every year I honor my grandfather bringing together the family as he always did. This year was also dedicated to my niece who called me in July saying how much she couldn’t wait to come to Aunty’s house and eat all that food 😂 she was on thanksgiving in the summer time lol. The family is bigger (there was a good 35 over yesterday) and we were so busy enjoying times that barely anyone took pictures or made many videos. I was als
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Before the day is out I had to share… just how grateful I am for motherhood! Most don’t know that my first child was my youngest brother. My mom struggled with mental health and substance and as her eldest I was to do what she taught me to do and take care of my siblings… I became his legal guardian and had the pleasure of experiencing his most significant milestones from both the perspectives of his sister and mother figure… but motherhood only deepened when my son Peyton came into the world an
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Too much of anything is no good… but letting our “inner kid” play is balance. In this clip, I break down how women sometimes weaponize the hobbies that connect men back to their teenage selves—like video games, sneakers, cars, sports, music. But those little joys? They’re often the release that keeps him sane when the weight of being a man gets heavy. Chris even shared how his reaction to me can feel like a teenage boy seeing his first crush again—playful, excited, wide-eyed. And Tahoe had jokes
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I told Wolf about the Dickacial I sometimes give Chris… a real skin-care moment for the whole eggplant. Gentle organic exfoliant on the thighs, balls, and everywhere skin gets hot, sweaty, and textured. Men need intimate-area care just as much as women do, especially to reduce odor, irritation, sweat build-up, and friction issues. Wolf said I was giving “white glove D service”… and now he understands why Chris is always smiling at him with teeth AND gums 😂 Catch this hilarious but important con
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Fellas, her cycle isn’t just about fertility… it’s her body’s monthly report card. 🩸✨Each phase tells you something about what’s happening hormonally, emotionally, and physically. Understanding them helps you show up better and spot what her body might be trying to tell both of you. I am finally in my Follicular Phase and had the energy to edit and get this out there! 🎥 This is Part 1 of the Hormone Series. Next up: The Male Hormonal Cycle, Perimenopause, Menopause, Andropause, and More For th
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On this week’s @businessofpleasurepod, Kash answered the same question Chris was asked… and her response landed right at the heart of The Gift of Presence ✨ One of the reasons she loves the way Chris loves her is simple, but rare. He doesn’t get in her way. He doesn’t shrink her. He doesn’t feel threatened by her power 🤍 Instead, he understands that a woman’s strength doesn’t weaken a relationship, it strengthens the collective. When she shines, they shine 🌟 She shared how real partnership isn
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This clip gives some major gems, but don’t forget… Even this clip is a tool of seduction. A taste. A tease. 😌👀☺️ The real game is in the full episode. If you’ve ever felt awkward trying to be sexy… If you second guess yourself when the moment hits… Or if you only feel bold when that liquid courage kicks in… @YourSexologistBestie (@au_natural38) breaks down exactly how to stop fumbling your sexy and start owning it—in a way that actually feels like you. Watch the full convo on @NeedstoBeStudied
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Relationship Scenario: If someone opens up about what’s bothering them in a relationship, is it fair for their partner to immediately bring up their own issues in response… or does that shift the focus and lowkey dismiss the original concern? 👀On this week’s episode of the @BusinessOfPleasurePod @tahoe_tv talked about what happens when men try to express how they feel—and how the convo sometimes gets flipped into a tit-for-tat instead of staying on the original point. I shared why I believe if
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This isn’t just phantom parenting… it’s trauma-coded responsibility. When you’ve lived through real fear, experienced real loss, and real survival… your body doesn’t wait for instructions. It moves on instinct. Even when no one is home. Even when there’s nothing to manage. You’re still managing. It’s because trauma informed hyper-vigilance doesn’t need a reason… it just needs a history. And when you carry that history into motherhood, fatherhood, into partnership, into leadership, into love… it
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Competence Collective… NEW EPISODE OUT! Comment PODCAST for the link or visit staycompetent(dot)com Every couple has a secret weapon. The joke that cracks the tension. The move that ends the argument immediately. But here’s the growth part… just because you can end the argument doesn’t mean you should. In this clip, @au_natural38 & @tahoe_tv talk about why using attraction, humor, or intimacy to shut a disagreement down can feel like peace… but still leave someone unheard. Real maturity is knowi
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This clip is where I start breaking down one of the most common questions I get… the gag reflex. 🤐 And that’s just the beginning… To celebrate the launch of the YSB Pleasure Institute on Patreon, I’m unlocking my full $59 course The Headmasters Playbook for all paid tiers — but only for the next 29 days. After that, full-length masterclasses like this will only be available to my top Besties. ✨ Here’s how the tiers break down: 🧠 Starting Bestie — $9.69/mo For curious minds who want community,
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Competence Collective, COMMENT COMPETENT BELOW and let’s define love bombing clearly. Love bombing is a pattern of excessive affection, attention, praise, or communication early on, often used to accelerate emotional closeness or secure attachment before genuine trust and stability are built. Now here’s the part we don’t talk about enough… have you considered how attachment styles can influence this behavior? In this episode with @Billy.TheBadGuy, Kash (@au_natural38) breaks down how certain att
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Last night, Chris and I were having a little Love-u-ment. I am deep in my luteal phase and he usually responds so intentionally to the shifts that happen with me. I tried to explain that during this phase, sometimes the support feels inconsistent. He shared that hearing that can make his care feel minimized, and I understood his feelings. At the same time, my body has been reacting in new ways. The crash, the irritability, the exhaustion, the pain, and the perimenopause symptoms all hit me at on
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🧘🏽‍♀️✨ Yesterday was my first time trying aerial yoga, and I have to thank my childhood best friend, @xi.ix.mcmxc my Otha Half Lay, who’s celebrating the Big 30 Fine today. For her birthday, she wanted to bring her friends together to keep our bodies in alignment and ready for the next chapters, so she decided to celebrate with an aerial yoga class. Now, I’m a girl who loves a good stretch and a good bend. And as a plus-size woman, I do my best to support the body that I carry. The beautiful t
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From our @TheSoftAndTheStrong page on IG written by Panama Smith: Some people feel that you should start your new year off on the right foot. Some people go to church. Clean their house and laundry. Go to a big party or an intimate one with family and friends. Unfortunately for me, I had to work. But @au_natural38 came to my job and surprised me and brought the kids to bring in the new year with me. I didn’t ring in the year alone. These kind of things set the pace of the year to come. | Kasha V
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Have you heard of The Eagle Mentality? 🦅 There are studies of the eagle that suggest they have 7 characteristics that people can learn from to power their personal growth and leaderships… I have studied and applied this concept and watched true proliferation happen for me! 🎙️👂🏽Tune in to this weeks episode titled “Keys To Success 🔑 “ feat The Smart Guy on all platforms @onthecontrary_podcast - FYI this analogy exaggerates one part. Eagles gradually shed feathers in their molt process it’s n
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Do kids really thrive more with single fathers than single mothers? Or is there more to the story? 🤔 Let’s break it down. 🔹 Statistics show key differences between single-mother and single-father households: ✅ Single fathers tend to have higher household incomes and financial stability, which can provide better access to education, healthcare, and extracurricular opportunities. Studies suggest children in these households may face fewer economic hardships and often experience higher overall we
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You never know what’s gonna go down on the @hardorsoftpod ‼️ @MrPlaytimePrep and yours truly myself walked @kingloonthe1st through some position variations starting with the most basic when you are a thicker man working the body of a thicker woman… Y’all know I’m a pull it in versus the run from it girl so I had to pull him in… but once he got his circle in motion he was ready to RISK IT ALL! I guess having a great cheerleader like @tahoe_tv will have you leaping off bridges 😂 Go tune into the
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Link in the commens 🫶🏽 He opens a drawer full of vibes… and instead of panicking, he pays attention… 👀 In this clip, Tahoe talks about realizing something early on: those tools aren’t competition, they’re clues. Instead of ego, he chose curiosity. Instead of feeling threatened, he chose to learn. Because understanding what your partner enjoys isn’t a loss, it’s an upgrade. This moment comes from one of our first Pick We debates on @UnconsciouslyCompetent, where we unpacked the idea that pleas
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Competence Collective, which phase of competence are you in when it comes to accountability? Phase 1: Unconscious Incompetence You don’t really understand what accountability is, you think saying “my bad” is enough. Phase 2: Conscious Incompetence You know what accountability should look like, but you struggle to practice it consistently. Phase 3: Conscious Competence You can take accountability, but it takes effort, intention, and sometimes discomfort. Phase 4: Unconscious Competence Accountabi
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🎓✨ My baby did it! Peyton is officially an 8th grade graduate, and mama’s heart is in full bittersweet mode. 💙💔 Watching him walk that stage today wasn’t just a moment—it was a milestone. A boy who once couldn’t handle crowds, noise, or transitions… walked confidently, celebrated joyfully, and showed us all just how far he’s come. 🧩🦋 Leaving the school that loved on him so well, where he thrived, felt like a quiet ache in the backdrop. But what lit him up… what flipped his whole mood? 💡✨ S
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This is a vulnerable moment. Please hold it with care. No judgement! In this clip, our guest @Billy.TheBadGuy shares what he means when he refers to himself as a “homophobic gay male.” It’s not a soundbite. It’s not a joke. It’s a lived experience shaped by early trauma, survival, and the complicated ways identity can form when choice feels removed. Billy opens up about being sexually harmed at a very young age and how that experience impacted his understanding of attraction, agency, and selfhoo
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Imma always take a lil of this thing called influence I have to speak on Autism! 🗣️People with ASD often have problems with social communication and interaction, and restricted or repetitive behaviors or interests. People with ASD may also have different ways of learning, moving, or paying attention. They may have additional sensory needs (for all 7 senses) and increased hyperactivity (minds moving a mile a minute). They aren’t the ones in need of prayer the world they live in needs it! Differe
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You really can’t put two ppl like me and @mrorganik in a room together 😂… How do y’all feel about makeup seggs though? Tune into this and more on this weeks episode of @onthecontrary_podcast - Now as a responsible sexologist I must say I don’t recommend this until the matters have been resolved. At which point there’s no problem in accessing that dopamine and oxytocin that can come of this type of transference of energy. It is not a means to solving the problem but I’d be a liar if I said my br
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